Clt General - Priority for Kids

[alexfong]

My friend advised me that I should focus on preparing my kid higher education. the things that I am learning from the school are extras. their higher education is of paramount importance. What is your opnion on her views?

[Justion]

If higher education means a diploma or degree and beyond:

I believe higher education is important only as far as a stage in life to help us progress through the norms of society. A mentor of mine does not possess a degree but is doing well in the industry of which I work. Myself, on the other hand had a fun and wonderful time going through tertiary education, partly because it greatly helped in deconstructing my rigid thought processes - in the discipline of arts. On top of that, I enjoyed my time learning with new people I met and contributing to the institution - and will always do.

Many people (not all) are pushing education as a paramount importance for reasons etched in the very material reality. They believe that a degree will help in securing jobs, which loosely means monetary gain and material wealth. A masters degree or PhD bestows a good image, which loosely means fuelling the ego and even more material wealth. Sadly, the general perception is as such and planning for your kids' higher education is most often expected of a well-to-do family by the general society.

I guess your friend are seeing things only on the material plane in this point of time?

But higher education is essential in many ways, paired with metaphysical understandings; will create pockets of knowledge of the universe and worlds beyond this.

[alexfong]

Do you think that it is possible that incredible emphasize on kids' higher education blind everyone from noticing present issues facing their kids?
There is very subtle but accelerated lost of innate human functions among kids that have gone unnoticed with parents.

Most parents evaluate the wellbeing of their kids thru how well their kids perform in school. Major aspect of their lives is spent on connecting with technology. There is no nourishment of energy and info for the higher bodies. Emotional, mental and spiritual bodies must engage with Nature and the Source of Creation to evolve and advance as greater humans. Human body is not a technological creation so it must be nourish in a natural way. The disconnection from Nature, will rendered the bodies to go into entropic state. When the higher bodies collapsed, it will drain the physical body and eventually the physical body will face the same fate.


Parents spent tons of hours to identify the best school and very little hours to study the clear and present dangers that their kids are facing in the society. the quality of food is not what it seems and neither are all the information disseminated to our kids are the truth. They are losing their functions very subtly. if this is not addressed, by the time they graduate they would have lost an irretrievable amount of genetic info. The degree will not take them very far in life.

From my personal experience with emergency healings, the children ward in the hospitals are filled with very sick kids. How can that be if we are advancing as a human race?

Do you think that the parents could have their priority backwards?

Should we not examine the entire situation again? and not just follow the herd mentality.

[Justion]

Could there be a very powerful negative programming in the world as whole?

Many parents have been subjected to the existing programming of society including kids themselves - who thrive so hard in schools and institutions in order to fulfill the 'desirable' expectations of the herd. It's a cyclical movement where the unaware are being thrown into, it's like a vortex of degeneration and it's continuously anchoring the human species in dis-connection.

How can we begin to instill the knowledge of HG to both parents and children?

[hocksoonyew]

We have been brainwashed into thinking the fallacy of developing good character because the material world sees success spelt with the dollar sign and the only way to achieve that is to get good education leading to good degrees and hopefully landing a good salary paying job, etc etc.

The real answer was shared by Alex and below is the extract ....

Extract from Forum Discussion .By Alex 28Mar13

Rewarding kids when they do well in studies is an easy way to raise kids. The real test is when they do not do well in studies and relationship, how do you treat them then?

A lot of parents are so tied up with time. They forgot to guide and develop their children’s character. Character is a much more complex subject to guide compared to improving in their studies’

To teach your kids to love good and bad things is not easy. Parents must learn to understand the meaning of love and the application before they can explain and teach the kids. If they are not willing to learn the 3P, it is impossible for the kids to love correctly.

Doing well in studies does not mean love. It can mean fear, ego, inferiority or superiority complex....endless reasons. .But to teach your kids to study with love and to love all creation, requires a parent to understand 3P deeply and passionately to guide the kids in this direction. 3P broaden horizons and deepen the understanding of life, CLT kids will be more balanced and secured in their upbringing if they learn this.

Balance and harmonious energy field will usher in good things in life. Character development (or the heart) is the key to doing well in life and not just studying at school. Learning things at school or at work cannot filter out bad information, Eg of doing well in studies but bad friends can input bad influence like smoking, online gambling etc

So parents have lost focus on this aspect of upbringing in their kids.

[jujur14]

TQ Alex, Justion and Guan for wonderful sharing on the topic of real 'education' for children. I'm beginning to understand that others (whether children or adults) will only listen to what you're sharing provided you've gone thro' the experience - they can detect your conviction.

Chasing after paper qualifications seem to be the norm in almost all societies and only small minorities here and there are chosing a healthy way of life, without conforming to the general expectations. We need to stop this onslaught ourselves and trully find time to connect with our children or the younger generations. Without looking far, just sit down for meal times in any coffeeshop or makan place and you'll see families that don't talk to each other but, respectively busy with each mobile phone or ipads. Physically close but in terms of true connectivity, zero! Many have lost the ability to communicate with others which in turn, leads to a whole host of emotional and psychological issues.

Perhaps it's time to think of starting a 'real' school for the youngs, taking care of their diets with proper nutritious food in canteen, going for nature trails in order to re-connect to Nature, learning to be responsible and accountable for our actions.

[alexfong]

Parents must observe clearly the condition of their kids. There are few cases of parents sending their kid to the top schools and yet energetically it is bad for them. Even thought the school is noted for their excellent results. the energy and info disseminated to the kids can destablilise the higher bodies. How can you tell? it is easy to observe kids, their reaction (unhappy, angry, sick, etc...). I am not just talking of the effect of the school administration or activities. But the entire energetic field of teachers, principle, students, what they are driving into the kids mind. etc as a whole. Good school is where a kid is balanced. Any shortfall in the school must be covered by the parents to make the kids complete. the school is only teaching physical info, the core issue is that they are losing genetic info and the parents has a responsibility to the kid in this respect. Love will balance and stop the genetic mutation.